I enjoy a wide range of BDSM activities that I share with fellow fetishists and supplicant submissives. I strongly urge you to read this site in its entirety for a full grasp of who and what you are dealing with before making contact.
About My Fetish Repertoire:
Every Dominatrix has a certain style, bent or leaning. My background makes it easier to ascertain if we will be a fit. I studied Art and Performance at the University. I worked professionally as a therapist for many years in a pain management clinic. My orientation to Domination is not necessarily clinical, but we can certainly say that there are strong notes that hint to a earthy/woody “health conscious” underpinning with a strong nurturing finish.
If you are a domination fanatic I invite you to share your process and experience in detail when emailing Me, then of course surrender fully once we commence. Letting go of expectation and the desire to recreate old experiences is essential to growth. That being said a few role plays that remind you of fond feelings cannot be bad. Let us never be a broken record or succumb to the banality of repetitious ruts.
If you are a neophyte, just now toe dipping into My realm I welcome you. I realize that this can be a nerve-racking adventure for you and I encourage you to allow yourself to express what you are experiencing and be brave. I will not bite (that hard) so go on, give it go!
My particular flair for Domination is Rebellious in nature. I am not the typical lifestyle/professional persona of a dominatrix but rather a modern hybrid. While structure, order and protocol are necessary for a professional to function, I am not obsessed with the minsua they sometimes entail. I am not the kind of Domina that goes to ALL the parties, ALL the events or follows every rule of the standard collective when designing My programs. I am multi-dimensional, varied and diverse. I like taboos and exploring their possibility…even taboos within the fetish community. Ironic, I know- Rules are meant to be broken. That being said, do not break Mine, if you wish to remain within My presence!
My favorite fetish activities are role plays, heavy corporeal sessions with true pain sluts (marking, bruising, bleeding), cross-dressing and gender bender play, slut-training, latex and leather fetish scenes, bondage scenes, mind washing/brainwashing or erotic hypnosis, financial domination (in person is My favorite), ball busting and heavy CBT, wrestling and boxing domination, extended travel sessions, couples scenes, double Domme sessions and physical/(mild) public humiliation. I invite you to peruse the sessions page to familiarize yourself with etiquette in contacting Me, My limits and the scope of My professional repertoire.
Vanilla notes Concerning This Dominatrix:
I grew up in Colorado in a highly religious background, its stifling nature created a thirst for the strange and abnormal. I understand a wide range of emotions and can relate to many different types of people. For this reason, it seems very difficult to typecast Me properly. I prefer individuals who do not proselytize. But as unpredictable as I am, there are still some predictable elements.
I love travel, I love horses, I love flowers, I love motorcycles. I adore art, performance, photography, pornography and music (not necessarily in that order). Among My hobbies are studying other cultures, looking for inspiration to plan new tattoos, learning about wine, learning about other languages, bodybuilding and nutrition, nootropics, naturopathy, neuro-linguistic programming, hypnosis, gardening and spa retreats.
I have been to France and Germany. I am looking to travel to Spain, Great Britain, Amsterdam and South America in the near future. I collect books, have cats and dogs, enjoy bike riding, compose poetry, paint and get lost in musical or dance performances at times.
I am a mother. I am human. I enjoy intellectual pursuits but do not take Myself too seriously. I value humility, kindness, strength, propriety, spontaneity, responsibility, creativity, respect and accountability (as I interpret these, may not follow standard norms). I believe in freedom and have a strong inner patriot streak, while still being able to handle constructive critiques of American Culture (neither fanatic nor apologetic, I am a realist.) I am a work in progress that won’t be done till the air in these My lungs, has passed on into the aethers.
I enjoy spending time with individuals who have similarities and are open or nonjudgmental. Life is too short for rigid existence. I am interested in learning to speak a few other languages, fly small planes and play an instrument in the future.
I am an aspiring writer with a strong interest in fiction novels and screenwriting. I find the idea of directing a film exhilarating and the production aspect to be very attractive. I love creative types, business types and people who value hard work. I am not one to invest a lot of time or energy in conspiracy theories and rumors. But I do pay attention to what’s ailing this planet with growing concern
It occurs to Me the universe is a complex and beautiful thing from the macrocosm to the microcosm, vast/ordered/dynamic and I take a sort of Joseph Campbell stance in evaluating it in its entirety by sitting back and saying “It’s great, good and bad, it’s just great!” Positive and upbeat people tend to resonate with Me the most soundly.